I also know that asking others for feedback when what we really want is a pat on the head is fraught with peril, asking for trouble, bending over and begging to be kicked.
Some general thoughts and specific comments on feedback:
- Feedback is a minefield. Proceed with extreme caution.
- Know what level of feedback you seek. Rosanne Bane explains.
- Do you really need someone else to tell you whether what you’re writing is what you should be writing? Veteran editor (and publisher of The War of Art) Shawn Coyne says “That’s a recipe for disaster.” Mick Torbay says to avoid the committee like leftover brussels sprouts:
- I have found general feedback from readers and writers to be useless. USELESS.
- Feedback from a professional editor is golden.
- Answers to specific questions can be helpful if
- you know exactly what the question is, and
- the person you ask is eminently qualified to answer that question, and
- the person you ask will tell you the truth, and
- the answer actually matters, which should really come before ‘a’ above.
What I’m Doing About It
I’m writing my first scifi adventure. I’m going to share the first draft, ugly and stinking, with a reader who loves Asimov and Burroughs the way I do. All I’m going to ask her is, does this feel right? Does this feel like them?
If yes, good. If no, I’ll ponder whether that matters and whether I’ll do anything about it except perhaps adjust my marketing message. I highly doubt I’ll change my writing because of the feedback. So that’s marketing research, not writing feedback, isn’t it?
Don’t Wait to Be Picked
Marketing guru Seth Godin has been saying it for years: don’t wait to be picked. Pick yourself.
Learn your craft. Know what a good story is, and isn’t. Do your best work, at least, best for now.
Don’t wait for someone else to tell you whether or not you’re good, whether or not to publish, whether or not your story matters.
Once your brain has enough information to get the basics done, it’s your heart’s turn to run with the story and scatter it to the four winds. And hopefully, more than four fans.